Former Wilderness Therapist
Opens New Parent Program
Contact:
Krissy
Pozatek, LICSW, Founder
802-522-2241
Website
February 28, 2006
Krissy Pozatek, formerly a wilderness therapist with Second Nature,
has started a new program that provides support to parents who
have children placed in therapeutic programs. Parallel Process
addresses the emotional needs of parents and engages them in understanding
their role in the parent-child relationship.
Through her experience in adolescent programs over the past decade,
Krissy recognized there was a gap in the treatment model, "in
wilderness programs students receive such individualized care,
and as a result they have an increased awareness of their issues,
feelings, communication, and coping behaviors. I often noticed
that at the end of the wilderness experience, parents were not
quite up to speed in terms of their own self-awareness and often
did not know how to relate differently to their child." Because
of this Krissy wondered about the long-term sustainability of
the child's progress if the parents were not growing along side
their child. Ultimately, for long-term success, the whole family
has to operate differently.
Having a troubled teen in treatment creates a powerless feeling
for parents, and Parallel Process allows parents to feel more
in control by helping them understand their issues and roles in
the parent-child relationship. Parents cannot make their child
change, but they can help shift the dynamic in the relationship
by reacting and responding differently to their teen.
Through weekly phone sessions, parents process the different
emotions they are experiencing and learn healthy coping skills,
self-care, assertive communication, boundary development and learn
how to integrate these new skills into the relationship with their
child.
Often home therapists do not understand wilderness and aftercare
programs and at times even go against the process because they
are unfamiliar with it. Krissy has an in-depth perspective of
the wilderness and aftercare experience, from her experience at
Second Nature Wilderness Program, Aspen Achievement Academy, and
Montana Academy, and works with the parents in a way that parallels
their child's program. Krissy also feels it is critical to work
as a team with the child's program and the educational consultant
to have long-term success.